But, of course, despite its cast of academic types, My Sex Life... isn’t about the academic columbarium; while he does spout off at length, mostly about pussy, we never see or hear any of the work Paul does; the closest is his late rant that culminates: “It’s not Heidegger climbing some fucking mountain. No, it’s the girl’s face, it’s your fear, as you pull back the elastic, her belly … you see?”Actually, Heidegger's more a reaching down in the abyss and feeling your way around kind of a guy.